There's totally no reason for you to feel like an idiot. It was him that forgot, after all. I'll bet he'd feel like an idiot if he'd remembered the person who spoke those words to him was right there in front of his nose when he quoted them! And I'll bet he'd feel really bad if he knew that it hurt you.
Like MJ said, there are a lot of people talking in the blogs to always remember who said what. I'm on nearly every day, and I still have to search back posts sometimes to remember who said what, and even then I don't always get it right. So I wouldn't read too much into it if I were you. I think the important thing is to remember that the words obviously went straight to his heart if he's able to recall them so clearly.
Don't be sad. It makes me sad to think of you being sad :(
Please, please do not think that SS would ever forget the kind words you wrote to him. He often says "Someone said to me", or "A wise person once said..." He hardly ever references back to that person, but that doesn't mean he doesn't know where it comes from. He cares about you, you know that.
I am not SS or Mayo, but I do know that he would not hurt you for the world.
CTV, like I said on the there blog there, even if he did forget, what's the big deal? I forget who said what to me three hours ago. Why take it personally? I think people put too much on him. He can't remember what everyone says at all times; to expect him to is asking him to be not even human. There's no reason to get upset. Haven't you ever gone, "I can't remember who told me this, but..." Honestly!
He might not have actually forgotten, but has nothing to feel guilty for even if he did forget. It's no big deal. Shoot, just before I was trying to tell someone something that another person had said to me on the blogs, and it was a good one and I couldn't remember who had said it.
He can't be expected to remember everything. It was over four months ago. There's no reason for you to take it personally or feel hurt.
CTV oh babe my heart does go out for you. i hope you are OK. i know it's not his fault at all. these things happen, but i really feel for you i really do. even if you try and tell yourself it's not important, it is important to you! and the fact that you thought of those words just for him.
take care honey. big smile on your face, he wouldn't want you to feel sad and he would hate to think that his slip up made you down.
I can't say that I would. I can't even say that I would need a "cool down" period if someone forgot that I had said something.
I'm amazed sometimes that SS even comes back. We put so much on him and every teeny little thing he does turns huge. If he god forbid leaves out one small thing, it's a national disaster and people need support and encouragement over it? That's taking it too far. He is some dude who hangs around on a blog. Why do we need a support group because he didn't cite a quote?
Kapunua, Do you have one bit of compassion in your body? This is CTV's own blog, she feels bad enough, and you come here trying to make her feel worse? I really don't know what to make of you. I have never in my life seen anyone so self-centered and cruel. You feel the need to address every issue that comes up, and are convinced you are the definite word on what ever the subject is. If no one asks for your opinion, please, keep them to yourself. Especially if all you have are unkind words.
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I love it!!
Omgz, 1400th view.
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LOLZ at your comment at my blog, CTV! Are you serious?? I think a lot of them have selective understanding.
I wish I could see her reaction when she finally puts two and two together.
She'll be horrified! ;P
I changed the time zone on my blog today. I guess it automatically defaults to west coast time unless you change it. I'd never noticed before!
ADMIT IT, CANUCK FRANK/SODA POP/LITTLE MISS SHORTY.
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Did you just call me short??
Yeah, okay, it's true, but still! And I'll have you know, the best things come in small packaged (ie. Frank), so there! :P
I didn't mean that he had a "small package" *cough cough*
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Um... did I just make that worse?
*is tempted to use this info against RW as blackmail*
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I only get a three-day weekend :( Do you get a four-day weekend?? 0_0
(^shocked face #6!)
5 day weekend?? How did you score that!
Just three - sucks to be me!!
Hi Karen,
Did you see any loose cows running around downtown this morning?
Luv, Mom.
LOL.
Can I just say that I totally understood that?
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I am, at this moment, enjoying an iced tea spiked with Canadian Club whisky.
I tried to be un-Canadian, but it didn't work!
Ha, luve the piccie CTV.
Thank you wifey for my birthday wishes.
You are the best wife a girl could have hee hee!
Luv you.
xxxx
That's funny, 'cause I usually follow you everywhere outside of the blogs.
Okay, that one deserves a "0_0"!
I will tell you all about it wifey.
I have a feeling it will go like this.
Day 1: Rain, stayed in and played board games.
Day 2; Rain, stayed in and read.
Day 3 rain, stayed in and watched TV.
Because I haven't done this to you today yet:
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Hee!
There's totally no reason for you to feel like an idiot. It was him that forgot, after all. I'll bet he'd feel like an idiot if he'd remembered the person who spoke those words to him was right there in front of his nose when he quoted them! And I'll bet he'd feel really bad if he knew that it hurt you.
Like MJ said, there are a lot of people talking in the blogs to always remember who said what. I'm on nearly every day, and I still have to search back posts sometimes to remember who said what, and even then I don't always get it right. So I wouldn't read too much into it if I were you. I think the important thing is to remember that the words obviously went straight to his heart if he's able to recall them so clearly.
Don't be sad. It makes me sad to think of you being sad :(
Capture This Void,
Please, please do not think that SS would ever forget the kind words you wrote to him. He often says "Someone said to me", or "A wise person once said..." He hardly ever references back to that person, but that doesn't mean he doesn't know where it comes from. He cares about you, you know that.
I am not SS or Mayo, but I do know that he would not hurt you for the world.
CTV, like I said on the there blog there, even if he did forget, what's the big deal? I forget who said what to me three hours ago. Why take it personally? I think people put too much on him. He can't remember what everyone says at all times; to expect him to is asking him to be not even human. There's no reason to get upset. Haven't you ever gone, "I can't remember who told me this, but..." Honestly!
He might not have actually forgotten, but has nothing to feel guilty for even if he did forget. It's no big deal. Shoot, just before I was trying to tell someone something that another person had said to me on the blogs, and it was a good one and I couldn't remember who had said it.
He can't be expected to remember everything. It was over four months ago. There's no reason for you to take it personally or feel hurt.
CTV oh babe my heart does go out for you.
i hope you are OK. i know it's not his fault at all. these things happen, but i really feel for you i really do. even if you try and tell yourself it's not important, it is important to you! and the fact that you thought of those words just for him.
take care honey. big smile on your face, he wouldn't want you to feel sad and he would hate to think that his slip up made you down.
happy easter also!
go eat some chocolate my friend!
my heart goes out to you not for
duh!
Is it that huge of a deal?
Kapunua said...
Is it that huge of a deal?
i guess not in the grand scheme of things K. but i think for that little moment yeh you're gonna feel a little empty. i would anyway.
but yeh i know, no one died!!
hi CTV again !!
I can't say that I would. I can't even say that I would need a "cool down" period if someone forgot that I had said something.
I'm amazed sometimes that SS even comes back. We put so much on him and every teeny little thing he does turns huge. If he god forbid leaves out one small thing, it's a national disaster and people need support and encouragement over it? That's taking it too far. He is some dude who hangs around on a blog. Why do we need a support group because he didn't cite a quote?
Kapunua, Do you have one bit of compassion in your body? This is CTV's own blog, she feels bad enough, and you come here trying to make her feel worse?
I really don't know what to make of you. I have never in my life seen anyone so self-centered and cruel. You feel the need to address every issue that comes up, and are convinced you are the definite word on what ever the subject is.
If no one asks for your opinion, please, keep them to yourself. Especially if all you have are unkind words.
Didn't see anyone asking yours either, anon. ^_^ Say, why not sign in, huh?
Thank you, Anon at 9:56 PM and 10:16 PM.
No need to sign in. It's fine.
CTV, here is a huge *HUG* for you.
♥
Anima
CTV you are more than welcome. Like I have said I wish there was more I could do for you.
You are in my thoughts
MJ
Hey CTV.
I see you're putting that gold camera to good use!
Here's a hug for you, to send you on your way today.
-A
Stop being so Canadian.
Shan't! :P
HI BOB! How's it going today? Missed you at the party last night. Hope you're alright.
love from J and L
Because today wouldn't be complete without doing this at least once:
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Have a lovely evening, Pony Boy! :)
Turning my lights off?
Yes, when I go to bed.
Ah, you mean for earth hour? From 8-9pm? Yes, I could switch off the lights for that :)
Good things groooooow in ________
Manure?
Did you clickie my linkie??
It is my favourite song at the moment.
Reading my email as we speak...
Holy mother of god, you are way too fast for your own good.
I'll get you one day.
Heheheh... ;P
Thank you for your email! :) I shall respond to it soon, but not tonight as I am packing it in for the evening.
Have a good week, Pony Boy!
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